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Thursday, September 22, 2005

莫名其妙->Ridiculous

Lately I have encountered this very strange person,hhmmm...How I should describe then,let me think for a while.Ya,this is how its goes;

Some people do have certain tempers that cannot be control by themselves,but that doesnt mean that he/she can anyhow 'fire' at innocent party right?Guess all of us will definately agreed with what I am saying.We do understand that in this kind of society we are in,being stress is a common problem for most of us.The correct way to deal with it,is to learn how to cope and manage stress effectively rather than say something harsh and regret later on.But usually the words you say doesnt tally with what you are doing,am I right?Best is he/she tries so hard to find faults in the surroundings,making colleagues' lives a bit too hard to endure with.Somemore he/she consider that as normal.Letting innocent parties to suffer with you is a very cruel way,to minimize self-hurt or pain.

Starting the day with a smile is good and can create a very pleasant working environment/atmosphere.There are many things that each and everyone of us have to fulfil in a day,the responsibilities we have to carry on our backs are getting heavier than ever.But nevertheless when things are done the correct way and according to policy/procedure,sure job can be accomplished without any pain at all.If everyone of us can spare a thought for others,the world will be a better place to live in.Carrying a 'black' face to work is unprofessional and best of all,use it as a weapon to attack others.After finished those required job duties of us,this person still pressed on hard,finding faults in anything you can think of.This and that you have done is wrong,why this and that you haven do,why dun let people try them etc...bah bah,the list can go as long as possible.First of all,when you want something from another person,just open your mouth and ask for it/them.Dun wait til everything is done and then you come complaint why this and that crappy stuffs.Can set the limits or certain procedures to follow at first and there will be no complaints at all. Better than you cannot see eye to eye with basically everything,that your eyes can fall onto.That will be so unfair for your colleagues,how can they meet up with your high expectations and high requests from time to time.Changes is always constant!!!

1 Comments:

  • At 12:34 AM, Blogger 小嬡 said…

    It boils down to the stress management and communicating skills of the individual.

    People perceive things differently. What's right for you might not be right for some.

    Unfair treatment is a norm.

     

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